A Woven Thread

As this adoption process has taken its course, I have been surprised by the reactions we have gotten from people. The reactions have been all across the board. From outright joy, guarded optimism to negative reactions. One of the most encouraging thing about this process is how many people we have come in contact with because of the process. We have made new friends as we seek out parents who have walked this road. We have been reaching out to people we never would have otherwise in an effort to gain as much insight and firsthand knowledge we can. Our lives have been enriched through through the process alone.

In an effort to get some baby items that we do not have, Megan posted a listing on Freecycle (think Craigslist but free). We have given a lot of our unwanted items away via Freecycle. Well Megan asked if people had certain items and many strangers responded generously with many different items. One went as far to read this blog and email Megan. She told Megan how encouraged she was by the blog and how it touched her. This is a woman we would have never come in contact with. That is just one example, there are many more.

The other night Megan and I were listening to a Tim Keller message on Justice. He made an illustration about our lives being one thread of fabric-- woven, interlacing, touching hundreds of other threads. When woven properly all the threads create a strong fabric. Many of my friends and I email on many different "threads" about sports, life and many other topics. It has been amazing for Megan and I to see these threads of ours, the people we have woven our lives with, come to our aid. With financial help, with uplifting spirits and encouragement in so many ways. We might not see or talk to these friends as often as we would like but these threads have been woven tightly and that has been evident. Megan and I do not have our parents or many extended family members in our area. We rely on our friends to be our family.

Our lives and the fabric Megan and I are weaving will forever be altered by an adoption. Many things can stand in your way, scare you off, yet we have endured. We know we have friends close and family afar that will help and support us. That is an encouraging thought. We have met strangers and renewed our bonds with old friends through this process which has been an incredible blessing during a time that could be filled with anxiety or worry.

So we wait, patiently and expectantly.

-Seth